Listening matters: On not treating the poor as mere 'beneficiaries'

Are they living in a remote area, too far from any potential support? Or maybe health treatment is just too expensive?

They are in Vitas, Barangay 105, the poorest of Tondo. The place is reached by non-governmental organizations (NGOs) and public services. In fact, there is a free feeding program just 10 minutes away from C.'s makeshift house. Walk 10 minutes more and there is the Vitas Health Center, which offers free medicine and check-ups.

You have 3 options on how you view Filipinos like C.:

1) You can either take the easy path and say "poor people are lazy, they don’t make the efforts to solve their issues, that’s actually why they are poor."

2) Or you can stay in the middle and think that "poor people lack knowledge; we need to educate them and make them understand what are the right actions and decisions to make.”

3) And finally, you can consider C. as a person, someone as smart as you. Throw away ready-made answers and try to understand what’s actually happening in C.'s situation.

Demotivation 

HOME. Aroma Temporary House, Vitas, Tondo. All photos from Adrien Cascarino/Enfance Foundation

HOME. Aroma Temporary House, Vitas, Tondo.

All photos from Adrien Cascarino/Enfance Foundation

Enfance Foundation, an NGO founded in 2003, chose the 3rd path, assuming that socio-economic exclusion results in – rather than from – the lack of self-esteem, lower cognitive functions, and consequently, very poor agency.

Instead of telling C. to do what would feel right for us and therefore confirming her inability to properly raise her children by herself, we should take the time to know her, her story, and her dreams. We need to decipher her words, like this odd sentence that blurted out of her lips the first time we met: “Gusto ko lumabas pero hindi ko alam paano (I want to go out but I don’t know how)."

Originally from Davao, C. migrated to Manila in hopes of eventually becoming a caregiver overseas. She believed that she could complete her training in the city and land a contract that would take her elsewhere.

But by the time she completed her training, she had run out of funds. She ended up wandering the streets until she met N., who then became her partner.

C. and N. live in the slums of Tondo. She had 3 children and started staying at home, waiting for N.'s P100 to P150 pesos daily income from scavenging. She felt alone and disempowered.

After 9 months of weekly visits from the Enfance Foundation, C's family received treatment from the local health center. C. also finally met her neighbors and started looking for a job.

The Enfance Foundation established a relationship with C. and N., seeing them as intelligent human beings capable of deciding what is the best for themselves and their family.

Not just bodies 

LIFE. Children walk on their way to school at Vitas, Tondo

LIFE.

Children walk on their way to school at Vitas, Tondo

There are a dozen other stories like C.'s; tales of teenage parents, kids growing up with violence, and young Filipinos who stopped believing in the goodness of themselves and of others.

Unfortunately, taking time to talk with poor people is still not considered a priority by many. Getting funding to do just that may also be difficult.

Many organizations, however, have already shifted their views from merely treating poor families as nothing but mouths to feed to considering them as minds to educate. While this change is definitely an improvement, it still does not remove the condescending and paternalistic tone attached to these programs. This mindset is saying that “there is no point in listening to poor people, we just need to give or teach them what they need and they will get better.”

Some people will not accept such help because they think they don’t deserve it, or because they don’t think anything can really change. Others will accept assisstance and get better, but would then wait for another benefactor.

Why? Because dole-out approaches don’t really improve their self-esteem or their agency.

The Enfance Foundation's experience shows that by simply conversing and establishing relationships with marginalized families, we are helping them better understand their history, issues, and resources. This can make them feel in control of their life.

We need to address physiological and psychological needs at the same time, not just one over the other. Empowerment requires not only a healthy body and an educated mind, but also a high dose of self-confidence, which is hampered when we consider individuals as mere “beneficiaries.” – Rappler.com

Adrien Cascarino studied psychology and business in France and has worked for ENFANCE Foundation as its Executive Director and as its program manager for two years.

If you want to help or volunteer for ENFANCE, you can reach them at info.enfancefoundation@gmail.com or at (+63) 918 665 3419. You may also visit their website or Facebook page.